My boyfriend keeps making everything yours or mine before marriage.blind
1. We agreed that each set of parents would contribute the same amount: KRW 100 million. Before the wedding, we mutually discussed and agreed on buying a used car. (My boyfriend said he'd buy the car with the money from his parents.)
2. Since it was being bought with money from the parental contribution, I thought of it as our car. So of course I asked to be added to the insurance as the 1 designated additional driver, and this was our KakaoTalk exchange.
After the KakaoTalk chat, he did immediately say, “I think I was wrong now that I've thought about it. You were upset, right? Sorry~”
But this kind of thing has happened a few times, so why do I keep getting a bad feeling... Is it because he works with numbers? lol...
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I don't get it. You're each getting KRW 100 million from your parents to prepare for marriage, so why is the car only in his name? lol
What does he think becoming a married couple means...? You become one financial unit, share a life, and get in the same boat together. If you're going to keep saying yours and mine, take what's yours and live alone. People obsessed with splitting everything 50-50 shouldn't even think about dating or marriage. They're just wasting the other person's time.
He says, “If I have a car, it'll make things easier for us” lol. More like it'll make things easier for you. He doesn't even say “if we have a car” from the start. What a fascinating way of thinking. Oh, you called off the engagement. Thank goodness.